Beat your insecurity
Hey guys, I know “insecurity” can beat you up, and bring you down and stop you from doing things.So I thought it would be good to help you through this time and make you more confedent, also because I got this requested.
First of all you get insecure because of something.
Believe me, as a child you didn´t worry about that you weren´t good enough (well i hope so).The thing is you get insecure because of something.And the first step is to find out the reason why you got insecure.It can be a lot of things.It can be a star, or a popular person at school who you think is way more talented or more beautiful as you.Also through people telling you your not good enough, and bullies.
I wasn´t always confedint either.Trust me it got hard at times.Like in sixth class, I had no problem with how I am.What I weigh.What I look like.What most of the people think of me…But I got all insecure because I got bullied.Just because of something the leader made up.Yeah.They tried to make me down every chance they got, called me names like b.tch etc.Because I was hainging with my guy friends and all.I´d be ugly and fat and they would stand there (7 girls) in one row.Me all alone.They would pick on me and idk what.It got worse as the guys said that I am beautiful and that they are b.tches.I felt too fat, not so pretty as before and like nothing.I never wanted to go to school, even if the guys would be there for me and my BFF in a different class.The guys and my other friends said they are just jealous.And you know what they were.I was in Chicago, I have all the guy friends, I have good grades….
I don´t excatley know how I got over it but I did.
And the thing is your look is just a shell!We all live in a shell, which is terrible because some people may never get a chance by a person because they would say she/he is fat or ugly.WHen you see a person, you see there shell.Not the inside.And to people who call others fat.Shame on you.You may have no idea what theyhave been through or how insecure they feel with they´re bodies.They may fight everyday to get slim.And then call them names is just pathetic.And if you call someone fat because your jealous of them or just don´t like them…thats a shame on you, too.Just because you can´t deal with yourself doesn´t mean you have to pick on others to make you feel good.
My point is, it doesn´t matter if your tall, short, skinny, normal, curvy, have super long legs or short, have a bit more on your hips, wear braces or glasses, have a tooth gap, freckles, a thigh gap or not.Really who cares.Actually having something other girls don´t have makes you even more special and makes you stand out.If you think you weigh to much then lose weight for yourself.Not for girls who call you names, or some popular guy at school.Trust me, if you really have a boyfriend who truley loves you, then he won´t care how much you weigh or if you have a thigh gap or not.He will love your freckels on your face, perhaps your dimples, your tooth gap or that you have a bit more on your hips idk.
Now look in the mirror.WHat do you see.DOn´t tell me some ugly whatever.Think you are a strong girl and you will make it through hard times.Now put your favourite music on and look at yourself in front of the mirror.Take a list and write down at least 7 things you like on yourself and some that you don´t.
Seriously go! You can read more later.
Done?Great.If you havent found at least 7, go again.Bye,
Hey your back.Now first look at the things you like on yourself.My tipp is to make them stand out, if you have wonderful legs tone them in some wonderful fitting jeans, if you love your hair, make the best of it everyday, if you love your stomach, wear crop tops, if you love your eyes (only if you liek some feel more beautiful with some more without) masacra or natrual eyeliner on.Be proud of what you have.Now look at the things you don´t like.Are these things going to stop you from reaching your dreams.Are they really?No, they won´t at all.Ad if your going for becoming an actress believe me, that won´t be a problem.They won´t stop you from beeing you and reaching your dreams, babe.Think of it in that way.
YOur really worth anything-if you believe in god read and if not you could skip but nah just read.God has a plan for you.YOu came on this earth like oyu are for a reason.YOu are amazing, talented, flawless and beautiful in every way.
Smile.Please, smile for me.I have never seen a smile that wasn´t beautiful before.Now everday from today on when you wake up put a smile on your face.Even if you don´t feel like it.
Go every morning to the mirror and tell yourself your beautiful, you will become a (….) or just reach your dreams.This will help you so much and lez you shine.This works 100%.Mean it.
So now I have written so much and hopefully have helped you out!If you want to have more about insecurness and all or something different.Just write me.I promise I´ll help you all.
Be fearless, shine, unique and be yourself.You are lucky to be yourself so why don´t use it.I got an idea!I´ll post some confedince quotes later on.Love you all x